People are always easy to be affected by the environment, but no one is born with bad temper. Most of the so-called bad tempers are acquired habits. And those who are apt to lose their temper, namely bad-tempered people, never take care about others’ feelings, in essence, selfish.
It is undeniable that everyone will encounter troubles matter, and anyone will be in extreme bad mood.
Sometimes, we may be in a bad mood and full of negative energy due to the pressure in life, and become irritable because something goes wrong.
At this time, some people may release their pressure and mood of discontent through their own way, and will not affect others. While others don’t do this way, they release pressure by losing their temper, and this kind of behavior will affect others.
We tend to lose our temper to our most beloved people, even don’t treat them as well as strangers.
In many cases, we take it for granted that our family and friends will love us forever and are used to our way, so we get angry easily, and never think about the damage to them.
Enjoying the love from the family, meanwhile, keep flying off the handle over them, so ain’t you selfish enough?
At this point, we are supposed to reflect on ourselves: Control your temper, and stop being so selfish.
Actually, the more capable people are, the better tempered they are, as they can figure out that bad temper can not solve any problems.
The only way to solve the problem is to face it and solve it calmly.
Just think how many times we’ve lost the chances for love and have hurt others in life, thus having wasted a lot of time. Once we lose temper, we find it difficult to normally get along well with others within a short period, nor can we normally work, so it is really of no avail.
So don’t take it for granted that bad temper is not a big problem. The temper you have can fully show what a person you are.
The so-called bad temper is actually selfish and incapable. So stop being a bad-tempered man.
Actually we have the predestined affinity among us, which represents a heart-to-heart exchange of ideas and a feeling based on mutual-love; a true heart full of emotional feelings as well as the forgiving for errors.
Everyone cherishes self-esteem but has different worries and difficulties, ideas, ways of doing things and living. You don’t have to change others but do your own bit.
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